People don't want your advice either, they ask for it but what they really want is your stamp of approval for the decision they've already made
I cant tell you how many times I've been dragged over to peoples houses to give them my take on what they should do to their house (I'm a builder/remodeler) and then when I give them my unvarnished opinion, they get offended, lolol
Its an emphatic no when asked the last 10+ years, cant win